This may be of interest to people thinking of joining Freemasonry.

Letter of the month: November 2002.

Hi,

I would just like to know if once one becomes a Mason, is one allowed to leave the fraternity or not, as I understand there are certain oaths?

Thanks

Mr ???????


Dear Mr. ???????

Are you picturing some "mafia" kind of thing, where the person is a member for life, entrusted with deadly secrets, and if they try to leave they are killed? Do I really need to say that its absolutely nothing like that?

The "obligations" of Masonry have nothing to say about permission to leave the fraternity. If someone became a Mason and then wished to leave, he could either request a demit, a certificate saying he had left his lodge in good standing, or he could simply stop paying his lodge dues and would be suspended after a year or two.

Now at that point, is the person a Mason?

Well if he was suspended, he wouldnt be allowed to attend a lodge meeting anywhere, and either way, of course, he wouldnt be forced to attend a meeting. No one is ever forced to attend a lodge meeting -- Masonry is entirely a voluntary organization.

I suppose even if the person were suspended, or even expelled, he would always be considered an ex-Mason in some sense. His name would always be in the lodge records that he had once been a member, for example, just like with joining any organization. But there wouldnt be anything hed have to do about that. It would be sort of like being from a particular place: you would always be from there, but that doesnt mean youd have to go back to it, or even think about it.

I just thought of something else you probably wanted to know in regards your question: what about the promises made in his Obligations, would they still be binding?

There are basically two kinds of promises the Mason makes in his Obligations: he promises to act properly toward his fellow Masons, to care about their welfare and treat them honestly. The other kind of promise is to keep secret the "signs and tokens" -- the traditional modes of recognition, between Masons. Regarding the first kind: once the person leaves Masonry, how he treats other people is up to him. If one of his lodge brothers had trusted him with personal details of his life, of some difficulty he was having, and the ex-Mason decided to blabber that around, it would be unfortunate, and kind of nasty. Regarding the second kind of promise: as part of the obligations, the Mason promises on his honor never to reveal those "signs and tokens". And yet, they arent really secret. They have been published hundreds of times, by Masons or ex-Masons with no regard for their honor.

In both of these examples, what could a lodge do? Nothing. What would it do? Nothing. The promises a Mason makes in his obligation are enforced by his own sense of respect and honor. If he quits the fraternity, what he does about the promises he made -- thats entirely his decision.

Does that get at what you were wondering?

in my area, you pay the yearly dues but i think you can pay a large ammount and be considered a lifetime members...Dave, you can probally touch on that?

You thought wrong apparently.